I have no place in this house that I can retreat to for some peace and quiet, some ‘me’ time. I used to meditate, but I can’t anymore as there is nowhere for me, but I really miss it. Nor do I have anywhere to read without interruption. I was thinking that I should try and make myself an area that is all mine.

At first, I thought about the cupboard under the stairs as it is literally the only area where there isn’t someone at any one time, but I don’t want to be shoved under the stairs with the spiders.

Then I thought about getting a two-man tent and erecting it in my bedroom. I know I could just use my bedroom, but I also know Tom would decide to come in and watch TV. Besides, I want a space that I can fill with luxurious throws and cushions that won’t get the children’s dirty hands on. A space that I can climb into, and it would be like being away from it all.

I would make sure no one goes in and disturbs my sanctuary.

I’m now wondering if it’s a little odd to have a tent in the bedroom. I could take it down and put it up again easily, if necessary. I don’t want the children to think I’m crazy.