I joined a dating site last week and have been chatting with a man called Theo.

Theo is intelligent, interesting, good-looking and very sexy. I’m very attracted to him, but I have so many questions and so many fears.

I feel as though I’m not slim enough or beautiful enough for him. He told me he likes to travel, so now I’m worrying that if we get on and take it to more than just a few dates, he’ll want to eventually include travel in that, which is something I can’t currently do due to a lack of finances and because of my responsibilities as a full-time single parent. He likes to run; I don’t, so I feel as though I’m too lazy for him.

All in all, I just feel as if I’m not good enough for him, and it makes me feel that I need Phil, who accepted me for everything that is wrong with me.